Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Melaka Trip 29-31 Dec
I meet my friend at Kranji MRT and took a bus across the border to the Larkin bus terminal. We reach Larkin about 9:40am and went around looking for a coach to Melaka. The price of the coach ticket to Melaka were all RM19. However different bus companies had different departure times. We bought one which departed at 10am.
The coach was quite new and it was pretty comfortable. It departed on bus and only stopped briefly at a rest stop for a toilet break. We reached Melaka Sentral station at 1pm.
From the Sentral bus station, we took the Panaroma bus (RM1) to Chinatown.
Jalan-Jalan Guesthouse
I had booked guesthouse which was right in the middle of Chinatown. It was a relatively new guesthouse called Jalan-jalan along Jalan Tukang Emas,just a stone's throw away from the Kiling Mosque (see pic). The manager Sam had converted it from a tradition shophouse that was in ruins into a guesthouse just a few months ago.
I paid RM35 per night for a twin private room. For that kind of price, you really can't expect much. It was a small room with a double-decked bed and a fan (no air-con of course). There is a common toilet and bathroom and there is hot water shower. You get free use of internet service as well, but as there is only one computer, you have to wait if someone is using.
It's basic, but the house has a nice character. However, my friend did not sleep very well because the bed was rather creaky. I liked the location as it was convenient to wander around Chinatown.
Chinatown
Jonker street was the tourist belt in Chinatown. The place is being invaded by tourists with the award of UNESCO heritage status to the old town. Tourist souvenir shops, galleries and eateries are over taking the houses.
However, if you wander beyond the tourist belt (not many tourists do), you will discover the charming part of Chinatown. There are many distributors still plying their trades there (I saw dried food, cigerates, plastic wares, coconut milk, metal ware). There were also many craftsmen still working their crafts there. I saw a metal smith smelting a cleaver, an old man making wooden buckets, rattan weavers, a lady making popiah skins. There are interesting things to see, if you have the interest to look for them.
Baba Nonya Heritage Museum
I visited the Baba Nonya Heritage Museum. It is a private museum. The entrance fee of RM8 comes with a guided tour.
It is well worth the money and I would strongly recommend any one visiting Melaka to drop by.
The museum was owned by a third generation baba family. The collection were actual items used by the previous generations. Obviously, the family was very rich.
The guide told me that she was seeing a sudden spike in Singaporean tourists, obviously thanks to the Media Corp TV serial Little Nonya. According to her, previously, most Singaporean visitors were students. But recently, she was seeing a lot more Singapore tour groups and visitors.
Dutch Square
I guess a visit to Melaka would not be complete without a visit to the Dutch Square and St Paul's Church. It's a nice visit, but nothing particularly special.
A walk through the cemetry
Bukit Cina is the Chinese cemetry ground. There is a small temple at the foot of the temple. I thought the temple was supposed to be dedicated to the Admiral Cheng Ho of Ming dynasty, but the statue of the admiral was at a corner outside the shrine hall.
It was quite pleasant walk through the cemetry grounds to the top of the hill.
Cendol
I lost count of how many bowls of cendol I ate over the 3 days in Melaka.
Cendol in Melaka is good. Rich cococut cream, thick and sticky gula-melaka (palm suger) makes this unforgetable. You just don't get the same thing in Singapore!
Sunday, December 28, 2008
Friday, December 26, 2008
Acquired taste
I remember many years ago, I made unsweetened coffee for my diabetic uncle. I had a taste and found it totally "undrinkable".
Yet, unsweetened coffee is now quite palatable.
It's all really an acquired taste. For the past year, I have been reducing sugar intake for health reasons. Over time, I guess my palates must have adjusted.
I remember when I was very young, I hated vegetables. Back then, becoming vegetarian is probably unimaginable. Yet I have been a vegetarian for 8 years now. Again, it was a slow process of getting acquainted with vegetables over time. In my teens, when I realized I was not going to get enough nutrition if I don't eat any vegetables, I forced myself to eat some every time. But the time, I was ready to become vegetarian, it was not a problem any more.
Taste can be acquired and changed over time. So too habits and practice can be changed.
I think I need to apply the same attitude towards the practice of meditation. It's something I have not been able to get into regular practice yet.
It will be a good new year resolution and I will start with observing a day of silence and meditation at a temple on New Year's day.
Thursday, December 25, 2008
《印记》
不要因为也许会改变
就不肯说那句美丽的誓言
不要因为也许会分离
就不敢求一次倾心相遇
总有一些什么
会留下来吧
留下来作一件不灭的印记
好让 好让那些
不相识的人也能知道
我曾经怎么深深地爱过你
席慕蓉《印记》
Friday, December 19, 2008
快乐是一种选择
快乐是一种选择。
我常常这么想。快乐就是一种人生观,乐观则幸福,悲观则忧伤。
最近一个朋友选择了一很不错的男朋友,感到非常幸福,也觉得快乐是是一种选择。其他朋友也都祝福他们。
然而“有来只见新人笑,有谁听见旧人哭?”
这次,我看见旧人哭了。
猛然发现,原来,“快乐是一种选择”,对在选择中被抛弃的人,是多么残酷的。
Thursday, December 18, 2008
Dhammavadaka & Desiderata
Remember always that you are just a visitor here, a traveler passing through. Your stay is but short and the moment of your departure unknown.
None can live without toil, and a craft that provides your needs is a blessing indeed. But if you toil without rest, fatigue and weariness will overtake you, and you will be denied the joy that comes from labour’s end.
Speaking quietly and kindly and be not forward with either opinions or advice. If you talk much, this will make you deaf to what others say, and you should know that there are few so wise that they cannot learn from others.
Be near when help is needed, but far when praise and thanks are being offered.
Take small account of might, wealth and fame, for they soon pass and are forgotten. Instead, nurture love within you and strive to be a friend to all. Truly, compassion is a balm for many wounds.
Treasure silence when you find it, and while being mindful of your duties, set time aside, to be alone with yourself. Cast off pretense and self-deception and see yourself as you really are.
Despite all appearances, no one is really evil. They are led astray by ignorance. If you ponder this truth always you will offer more light, rather than blame and condemnation.
You, no less than all beings, have Buddha Nature within. Your essential Mind is pure.Therefore, when defilements cause you to stumble and fall, let not remorse nor dark foreboding cast you down. Be of good cheer and with this understanding, summon strength and walk on.
Faith is like a lamp and wisdom makes the flame burn bright. Carry this lamp always and in good time the darkness will yield and you will abide in the light.
Desiderata
Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others,
even to the dull and ignorant; they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter,
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs,
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals,
and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be.
And whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace with your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.
Shocking fraud
Most of the news had been pinpointing Bernard Madoff who allegedly perpetrated the fraud.
But I had it hard to believe that only one person is involved in a massive fraud on such scale.
As Andy Serwer of Fortune Magazine said, "I say that for Madoff to perpetrate this fraud alone would have been next to impossible given the scale of the business."
Surely, those people who worked in Madoff would have figured out something was not quite right along the way. There had to be at least a few people highly placed enough to figure out what was going on even if Madoff had not said it out right that the whole thing was but a Ponzi scheme, such people who prepare the accounts and financial statements. Even if people could not figure out what was actually going on, some would surely detect that something suspicious was going on.
I think that for such a massive fraud to be possible, there must have been many other people who were either willing participants, or were inclined to look away from what would have been tell tale signs.
If the whole fraud were purely mastered mind and carried by Madoff alone, that would have been shocking indeed, for that seemed like quite an impossible feat. And if it were not, it must have involved many people, and it would be just as shocking as well. How is it that none of them had the conscience to ring the alarm bell? What happened to human conscience?
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
《忍不住》
山忍不住高耸
水忍不住淙淙
鸟忍不住飞翔
风忍不住吹动
一朵花在属于她的早晨忍不住开放
一颗种籽在冬日将尽忍不住探头
一束阳光在雨后忍不住微笑
一片云在委屈时忍不住落泪
一个我在撞见一个你之后忍不住喜欢
玻璃忍不住透明
水草忍不住摇动
星空忍不住繁荣
海洋忍不住浩瀚
一只鱼在池塘里忍不住赤裸
一只曲子在激情时忍不住高亢
一只云雀在风中忍不住歌唱
一只画笔在五彩里忍不住灿烂
一隻我遇见一隻之后忍不住成雙
王胜宏 《忍不住》
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
《戀歌》
我要唱最后的戀歌
像春蠺吐最后的絲
願你美麗的前途無限
而我可憐的愛情並不自私
秋來樹木都應結果
多餘花卉徒亂天時
長長的旅途布滿寂寞
黯淡的雲端
深藏燦爛的日子
開闊的河流難被阻塞
偉大的胸襟應容苦痛
人間並無不老的青春
天國方有不醒的美夢
願我有歌可長留此間
贊美那天賜的恩寵
使我在人間會相信奇跡
暮色裡仍有五彩長虹
徐訏《戀歌》
Friday, December 12, 2008
人心骤变
人心骤变,无关道义。
一场感情事件里,
高估了所有的人,
也明白自己并不比谁清高... ...
取自李岳华的《红颜男子》
一直以为人心是慢慢变的。
突然看见骤变,不经错愕。
那是多少日子以来,因缘累积的突发,
还是人心真的说变就变?
不是当事人,说不出缘由。
只是发现,原来真的高估了一些人,
也明白,自己,不比谁清高。
Sunday, December 7, 2008
Pindapata
Pindapata is not practiced in Singapore. (Begging is outlawed in Singapore, and what muddles the situation is there are bogus monks who begged for money instead of gathering food). Occasionally, some temples do hold pindapata within their temple grounds.
This is the third time I participated in a Pindapata.
The first time was at Bago in Burma. It was an interesting experience. I got a lot of "guidance" from the locals, telling me where to wait and what to do as the monks come by. I got lots of stares from the monks and novices as well (the monks were from a monastary that took in many orphans as novices). Apparently, though ocassionally tourists do wake up early to see the alms round, few actually participated.
The second time I did it was at Luang Prabang in Laos. It was a really bad experience. The problem was that there were a group of touts who targetted tourists. They push their food to the tourists as they were offering food to the monks. Then they started asking for outragous amount of money. We got confused and when we refused to pay the money, they started shouting "Buddha money! Buddha money!" and created quite a scene. They basically spoiled the experience and disturbed the peace of the alms round.
Apparently, the situation has gotten so bad that tourists have been asked to refrain from participating. Other people who had gone to Luang Prabang reported that they were told to just observe and not participate in the Pindapata.
Anyway, the one that was held at BDMS was a simple affair. Although it is not quite how it was practiced in the past, it was a way to let some people partake in an ancient practice. Apparently it was the first time for many people there.
Saturday, December 6, 2008
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
为这个世界添一点美丽色彩
在这个世界,有一点欢乐,有一点悲伤,谁也无法逃开。
我们的世界,并不像你说的真有那么坏,你又何必感慨。
用你的关怀和所有的爱,为这个世界,添一点美丽色彩。
《四季》 安克强