Tuesday, September 30, 2008

下雨夜的思绪

昨天健身后,朋友说在杂志上看到有关一位国家队龙舟手,弄伤了背部,半身不遂,结果失去事业,女友也离开。

当时我想,这样的女友,患难离去,可见也不真心。

当然,不是当事者,总是容易批评。

今晚,看了《侯文咏极短篇》之《死神在酒吧》,一个患了卵巢癌的病房护理长这么说:

像我们病房最近就有一位女性末期癌症患者,知道老公在外有女人之后,自杀未遂。后来我 就告诉他:“既然你自己都要走了,有人愿意替你照顾老公,有什么不好呢?”

我跟老公谈到这事时,他只是笑笑。“我是说真的,”我又说了一次,“如果我走了,我希望你再去找一个亲密的伴侣。”

看后,思绪绵绵。

如果心爱的人在你患难或是低落时,弃你而去,你会自怜又憎怨,还是会给予祝福?

Saturday, September 27, 2008

谁吃了蜡肉和雷茶? Of waxed meat and thunder tea

最近常看见“腊肉”译成 waxed meat, 而“擂茶”译成 thunder tea。

这根本就是错的!

因为“腊肉”不是“蜡肉”!而“擂茶”也不是“雷茶”!

“腊”是指冬季,而腊肉是旧时冬天腌制的肉类,并非以蜡来腌制肉类!

客家擂茶,是以陶制擂碗将茶叶和各种材料研磨成粉泡制。“擂”就是研磨的意思。这茶与“雷”风马牛不相及。

这两种译法根本就是译者把中文里的同音相近字混淆了。问题是语言是约定俗成的,错久成对,在新加坡,腊肉已变成了“蜡肉”而擂茶也变成了“雷茶”!


In Singapore, it is quite common to see the mention of "waxed meat" (especially around Chinese New Year) and the Hakka Thunder Tea.

Both translations are really a confusion arising from very similar Chinese characters that are homonyms.

The Chinese word for "waxed meat" is 腊肉, which really has nothing got to do with wax. 腊 refers to the winter season, in particular, the last month in the Chinese calendar which is around December or January. As opposed to common misunderstanding, the meat is really not preserved with wax! The problem comes from the confusion with another word 蜡, which means wax. Of course, the waxy and shinny texture and look of the meat does not help. I used to be horrified thinking that the meat is preserved with something like candle wax, and wondered if it isn't detrimental to our health.

The Hakka Thunder Tea, too has nothing got to do with thunder and lightning at all. The Chinese words 擂茶 refers to the tea that is made from pounding the tea leaves along with other ingredients like sesame seeds and peanuts. 擂 refers to the pounding action. It all probably started with some translator who mistook 擂 (meaning pounding) with 雷 (meaning thunder). Both words sound almost the same except for the tone. Well, this has now become the de facto translation in Singapore. You see Thunder Tea in The Straits Times and stores selling this dish. I would be interested to see what is it called in English in Taiwan. I'll watch out for this when I'm there next month.

Meanwhile, I guess I will continue to enjoy Hakka Thunder Tea, but I really won't eat any waxed meat even though there is no wax in it, simply because I'm vegetarian.

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

懦弱的感觉

康正行对宇守恒说:

我似乎只听见我的呼吸,
一个深深的呼吸,
我看不见自己,
在回忆里头,
我想我再也想不起,
一种陪在你身边可以懦弱的感觉了。

《盛夏光年》 王纪尧

Sunday, September 14, 2008

愿君随缘珍重

正偎翠依红,应记浮生若梦,若一朝情冷,愿君随缘珍重!

刘墉《下雨的夜》

T-shirt


I got this from my dragon boat team mate today.

So sweet!

Thanks guys!

Thursday, September 11, 2008

Following passion

The ones who have followed their passion -- even if they weren't technically successful, when they looked back at their lives, they had fewer regrets. They felt that their life had been more fulfilling.

from the movie, Fast Food Nation

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

On love and emotional development

Last Sunday, Ven Dhammika made a very interesting comment. On the topic of relationships, he said that he found people who had been in a relationship and loved deeply are frequently able develop a deep sense of metta.

Recently, I had been on a related train of thoughts. Sometimes, I feel that I that I lack a certain level of maturity or "richness" in my emotional development -- something lacking in some aspects. I wondered if it was because I never really had a deep relationship before.

The lacking is not so much like the Christian concept that we are not complete as an individual person and that need another partner to become complete. Rather, I think it is a lack of that experience, which could be so helpful in emotional development and maturity.

Yet, I find the idea of getting into a relationship just so as to use the partner to help me learn and develop rather abhorent. If I would get into a relationship, it has to be because I really loved him. And in that true love, we would help each other grow, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.